But as fans have pointed out, it is Marilla’s quiet dignity and grace that have touched so many. Though Marilla never stepped foot off Prince Edward Island, or faced life-threatening obstacles, or secured her own happiness at the finale of a passionate love affair, her life is one of respectability and compassion. Her depth of feeling, though sometimes laid hidden under protective armour, should not be underestimated.
Marilla’s worry over whether Matthew and she would be capable of raising a young orphan, and the personal heartache she faced as a young girl when her stubbornness stood in the way of her own happiness with Gilbert Blythe’s father, are just two examples of frightening and life-altering predicaments she experienced, though she may not have left the comfort of her own parlour in facing them.
As the eldest female in our contest, at the age of 65, Marilla’s heroic attributes begin with her taking in a young girl, sent to her by mistake. It was an immeasurable life-adjustment for Marilla and Matthew to do so, as both were already in their “twilight” years. But they faced it in order not to break Anne’s heart.
Though it took some time for Marilla to openly express her feelings to Anne, in time she imparted her own “flesh and blood” with the most important wisdom a real mother could give. She had a knack for bringing Anne back to reality and reminding her of the things she mustn’t forget. When Anne confides in Marilla that Gilbert does not fit her definition of a romantic suitor, Marilla responds with the following:
“Anne, you have tricked something out of that imagination of yours that you call romance. Have you forgotten how he gave up the Avonlea school for you so that you could stay here with me? He picked you up everyday in his carriage so that you could study your courses together. Don't toss it away for some ridiculous ideal that doesn't exist.”
She remembers her own regret over not forgiving John Blythe and wants to save Anne from similar heartache. Marilla’s strength of character, her acceptance of what life hands her and her underlying sense of humour through it all, make her truly endearing.
What also makes Marilla such a beloved character is her translation from page to screen by the talented work of Colleen Dewhurst, the actress who played Marilla in Kevin Sullivan’s production. Many say that no one else could or should play her. Colleen’s portrayal of Marilla – her dry sense of humour, strong temper, no-nonsense attitude and quiet adoration of Anne – creates a lasting memory for all who watch the series.
To vote for Marilla Cuthbert in our Ultimate Heroine Contest, click here! Remember, the contest ends tomorrow (Tuesday, March 29) at 11:59 p.m. EST.
